Saw a good friend on Saturday, a friend from my college years. Weâ€™ve both grown up a lot and our lives have changed in so many ways. Weâ€™re both shocked that weâ€™re in the adult world and not sure if we belong here. She has a beautiful little boy and sheâ€™s one of the best people I know, truly.
It occurred to me. We should all have at least 3 friends (other than our significant other) who itâ€™s just easy to be with, it doesnâ€™t require a lot of work and you can just talk for hours about absolutely anything. We should all have at least 3 friends like that in our lives.
Friends donâ€™t go out of their way to hurt your feelings and you should be able to go for months (maybe even years) without seeing them and just fall right back into place like no time has passed. Friends should get what you are saying without having to always try to explain.
Intimate relationships with guys has never been hard for me, it either works or it doesnâ€™t for the most part. My girlfriends has always been more complicated and taken a lot more work. Every once and a while though I have a moment where itâ€™s just easy and I realize, this is what friendship really is.
Those handful of friends, I would travel the world 10 times over for.
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