Am I Being Hit On?

I added a guy on flickr as one of my contacts because he was somewhat local and I liked his work. Before I knew it he was sending me messages, is he hitting on me or has it just been so long since I’ve been hit on?

From the area? You are very cute!

So, tell me Robin….. Are you shy?!

I told him I wasn’t sure what he meant but at times I could be shy :confused:


Means, I was hoping to chat a bit with you. You never told me if you’re still in the area.

Confession time, I peaked at your picture. You are adorable!

I then hinted by saying I didn’t look as good normally as I did in my wedding pictures from June.

But Robin-

You are SO pretty!

I was really flattered when you commented on my pics. So, tell me more about yourself….

Now what the hell do I say??

  1. bluepaintred

    August 21, 2008 at 11:20 am

    well say my name is robin , I live in mass. with my adorable kitties and wonderful husband

    that way he knows you are married but becuase he said to tell you about yourself you are telling him in a natural sounding way!

    also, I see this as a “hit”

  2. Gemini

    August 21, 2008 at 12:08 pm

    lol you are adorable… lol :erik:

  3. metalmom

    August 21, 2008 at 12:14 pm

    Robin has a boyfriend! Robin has a boyfriend! Robin has a boyfriend!!

  4. Robin

    August 21, 2008 at 12:19 pm

    BPR – I thought mentioning my wedding would give the hint.

    Gemini – Apparently and irresistible.

    MM – And sitting in a tree.

  5. Gemini

    August 21, 2008 at 12:46 pm

    well it is true…. why do you think I am still around… 😉 I am waiting for you to let your guard down so I can take advantage of you… :devil:

  6. Turnbaby

    August 21, 2008 at 1:16 pm

    Yes—he is hitting on you.

    He does not care if you are married.

  7. Heather B

    August 21, 2008 at 2:35 pm

    Alot of people don’t care if your married or not. I have issues with guys not taking my girlfriend and I’s relationship serious. I think that that most people think that a W & W relationship is strictly sexual.

    Anyhow back to u, hey at least you know that after you got married that you still have sex appeal and guys still want cha 🙂

  8. Robin

    August 21, 2008 at 2:44 pm

    Gemini – I kinda figured.

    Turnbaby – Apparently, he’s still chatting me up. I think I may start ignoring him soon.

    Heather – Yeah, well I guess that helps at least.

  9. Heather B

    August 21, 2008 at 2:47 pm

    But yes after a while of them not getting a clue, I do tend to put them on ignore…

  10. Robin

    August 21, 2008 at 2:49 pm

    Heather – It’s weird, he’s on vacation with his son and conversing with me :dunno:

  11. Cheri

    August 21, 2008 at 2:52 pm

    I’d say well thanks for the compliment my husband is always telling me how pretty I am. 🙂

  12. H.

    August 22, 2008 at 7:00 am

    Yep. He’s hitting on you. He doesn’t care if you’re married. I’ve met a few assholes like that. Don’t talk to him any more.

  13. Robin

    August 22, 2008 at 7:57 am

    Cheri – I considered that 😀

    Tara – I have, I just kinda felt bad or at least didn’t know how to end the conversation but that’s the best way.

    H – Done.

  14. Chatty

    August 22, 2008 at 9:21 am

    “My husband thinks I am adorable too and screams it at the top of his lungs during sex.” But, somehow, I don’t think that would make the snake go away.

  15. Absurdist

    August 22, 2008 at 9:24 pm

    “Thank you for the compliment. That is very kind of you. But I am married, and I prefer to keep my online conversations to professional endeavors.”

  16. Jen

    August 23, 2008 at 1:53 pm

    I would’ve blocked him after the first message – but I’m a prude like that!

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