Our Point System
So I was shocked to find out that Mr. Fabulous thinks that I have Erik wrapped around my little finger. He thinks I keep my man on a short leash but this couldn’t be further from the truth.
I don’t make him sleep in the guest room, I just require he sleep in the guest room whenever he forgets to make me dinner. If he makes me dinner that night then he can sleep in the bed with me but must stay on his side, which is clearly marked.
He’s allowed to wear whatever he wants, as long as it’s on the list I’ve given him and update monthly. What is not on the list is “tighty whities” and socks with sandals. I think that is pretty reasonable.
He’s allowed to leave the house but only to go to work (and straight home after that) and to get me dinner. Both of those things can win him points and when he reaches a certain amount of points he gets treats. Erik likes treats 😉
Last but not least he must agree with me at all times and back me up even if my reasoning is completely ridiculous. I’m not saying he has to just go along with whatever I say but he must actually agree with everything I say.
So as you can see I do not in any way have him whipped, I’m just someone who likes things a certain way…that’s all 😉