A Grand Affair
I’ve had a lot of people comment on me having a “big wedding” but it never quite seemed that way to me.Ã‚Â We’ll probably have about 150 people that seems about average to me.Ã‚Â I’m not going over-the-top with anything, not a lot of little details (my plan at least).
I suppose to a lot of people I seem like the type to have a small/intimate wedding or elope and you would be right.Ã‚Â I’d always wanted to elope because I’ve never been a fan of weddings, they always seem to be over-the-top in so many ways.
A while ago when I told my mom I would elope if I ever married she asked me if she could still throw me a party and I said “yeah, sure” but now it seems to me if we’re going to have this enormous party we might as well just do the ceremony (non-religious) right before it :dunno:
The real big thing is that my mother’s family lives in Oklahoma/Arkansas and this is the only way they’ll really be able to get up here to visit with all the kids (7 in total).Ã‚Â So really it’s more like a big reunion and probably the only chance all our family and his will get together.
I just hope I don’t lose my mind planning it, I lose it really easily these days :twitchy: