We Need To Talk About Kevin
Eva didnÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â€šÂ¬Ã¢â€žÂ¢t want to have children or at least it was the one thing she was most afraid of. From practically the moment she became pregnant with Kevin everything was turned upside down.
IÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â€šÂ¬Ã¢â€žÂ¢ve heard this novel described as ÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â€šÂ¬Ã…â€œparenting gone wrongÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â€šÂ¬Ã‚Â and I think that is by far the easiest way to explain this story. A mother gives birth to a child she has no maternal instincts towards and grows to intensely dislike.
Kevin is told through letters Eva is writing to her estranged husband as she tells the truth of what happened and how she felt about it. A large part of the book centers around how she felt she was a bad mother and that she is the one to blame.
The reason she decidedly unraveling this story is because one day her not quite 16 year old son decided to murder a bunch of students at school, a teacher and a cafeteria worker as well. Newspapers, television and other parents all seemed to question her parenting skills and whether she was behind what went so very wrong with her son.
Reading Kevin was exhilarating and terrifying at times as well. I found myself in awe of the honesty and brutal reality Eva diverged to the readers. Just when you think you are prepared for where the story is taking you it switches gears and you need to hold on for that sharp turn.
Personally, I found the husband, Franklin, the most infuriating character. Maybe itÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â€šÂ¬Ã¢â€žÂ¢s wrong, or maybe I just took sides, but I felt his rose colored glasses towards his son was what was the constant problem. If the father stepped back and was willing to see what was happening with his son, instead of blaming everyone else, just maybe the tides could have changed.
In the end I was left wondering if Kevin was really that disturbed or if that was just how she envisioned him in her mind? Could he sense how much she didnÃƒÂ¢Ã¢â€šÂ¬Ã¢â€žÂ¢t want him and was it all just a need for the love that was unavailable? Was there anything anyone could have done to change the outcome?
This book is about a lot and leaves a lot of questions; questions most of us are afraid to answer.