Buying A Future
The more I talk about buying a home and the more I really think about it I realize it’s just an important next step to take.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â Obviously it’s scary, you’re buying something financially monumental and once you buy it it’s your problem.
It’s always scary taking such an huge step that you can’t take back.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â The only thing I’ve ever done so far that what so permanent is getting my tattoos and I enjoyed that leap very much.
Of course my first thought is: Are we insane?ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â We can’t afford a mortgage, this is going to blow up in our faces.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â I’m glad I talked to people because I realized just about everyone feels this way buying their first house.
Anything I’ve ever done that ultimately was worthwhile… initially scared me to death. — Betty Bender
Sometimes I think we forget that it’s good to have a little fear, I think it’s a good sign.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â What usually terrifies people in this world?ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â Falling in love, getting married, having children and buying a house.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â These are all things that usually bring the most joy and end up being the most rewarding even if they don’t work out in the end.
Today we go to look at the house for the third time and I want to get some real pictures of it.ÃƒÆ’Ã¢â‚¬Å¡Ãƒâ€šÃ‚Â Today we either sign the addendum or we turn it down.
I just have to keep telling myself: it’s ok to feel scared, it means it’s really important.