Thinking back to what I’ve gone through the past 27 years I don’t think I’d change anything. In some ways I think I made really good decisions. I could have really fucked up my life if I’d stayed with certain boyfriends…I certainly wouldn’t have Erik.
I could have had a kid with the wrong guy and be tied to him for the rest of my life. I could be 27 tied down with kids and having to have gone through a painful divorce. If I had maybe I wouldn’t have traveled like I did or met the people I did.
In that way I’m really proud of the decisions I made. I could have settled down years ago but it didn’t feel right. I’m proud that I follow my instincts because no matter how hard it is in the process in the end it always feels right.